Women versus Men: Healing the Root of Division
In Western Society, men and women are largely divided. Older women who are divorced often cannot find a mate. Many men have completely walked away from dating or are seeking relationships with foreign women. Young beautiful women are testifying that they no longer get approached by men. Society is not happy. Society seems broken. Why aren't young people building lives together, overcoming obstacles together, and growing old together? What is the root of their division?
What do the numbers say? Statistically, there are about 171 million women in the US and about 169 million men - that's a surplus of about 2 million women. Less than 2% identify as gay. 63% of men aged 18-29 years are single! Comparatively, just 34% of women 18-29 are single. Meanwhile, men over 30 have about a 25% chance of being single, and women over 50 have a greater than 30% chance of being single. Finally, women 30-49 are the least single at 17% (link below). This paints a picture.
What picture does it paint? Young men have been largely abandoned. At the beginning of their productive lives, these men haven't had time to advance in their careers and build a strong financial foundation yet. Young women ignore them and instead choose to settle with older men - many of whom are divorced. Subsequently, women find themselves more and more single as they age and get displaced themselves by younger women. Young men become jaded to marriage, and older women find themselves alone.
What is the solution? Young ladies, please understand that racking up a high body count in your twenties is not attractive and developing a deep relationship with a man requires overcoming adversity together - even financial adversity. Give these young men a chance. Do not mistake kindness for weakness. Given the shear number of young single men, many young ladies are riding the same rides - namely, men who do not value women except for sex. Young ladies, build lives with moral men.
Young men, stop having sex with women who have no self-respect. These women are using you just as much as you are using them. Vet these women. Don't destroy your financial future by becoming a baby daddy to women who do not intend to weather storms with you. Search out wife-quality women - feminine women who will be on your team that won't criticize you publicly on the internet or belittle you but instead will work through issues together. Old women are dying alone, ladies. Be kind.